Tired of Roommate Syndrome, Friends withOUT Benefits, LOUD fights, icy cold atmosphere, or just avoiding ALL the dangerous conversations? We have been there, done that, and have the t-shirt. But, we found tools that put us on a new path. And we are here to help you.

As Connection Codes Certified Coaches, we work with Christian engaged and married couples to transform your relationship using proven tools to overcome conflict and build connection. 

We offer private coaching sessions for couples, families, and groups. We also speak and lead groups through the Connection Code Tools.

For more information or to schedule an event, please feel free to reach out to us at Info@ZConnection.Codes

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Roy and Julie Zesch have been married over 35 years. We have 10 children and 5 granddaughters. We have served in our local church as Deacons, Elders, Small Group hosts and leaders, Children’s Pastors, and have hosted a Church in our home.

We have experienced a lot of the stresses that can affect families: having children, raising children, death of a child, job loss, health issues, family member divorce, death of close friends, and church dysfunction. Devotion to Christ and each other has kept us together but not always connected.

The discovery of Connection Codes has already greatly enhanced our ability to relate to each other and the other humans that we interact with.

Mothers

Do you feel like you are drowning, exhausted, lonely? Julie has been there during her 28 years of homeschooling!

Julie is passionate about mothers and their emotional well being.

Julie can help you learn to be YOUR authentic self and find YOUR regenerative energy points(put on YOUR oxygen mask first). Then you are better equipped to help give your children identity, helping them to process their emotions and in turn show them how to walk in their God-given authentic self as you train them to succeed in life.

Traditional marriage and family coaching can seem adversarial. It seems like the coach is an umpire telling each person what they are doing wrong.

Connection Codes starts with a different approach. Since humans connect through our emotions, if we can learn to process our emotions in a healthy way we can connect to each other. Then all the problems get a little smaller and easier to solve.

Connection Codes coaching is about helping clients figure out what emotions they are experiencing and then helping you learn how to process them with your partner and the other people in your life. When you process them they aren’t sitting there ready to explode with no notice.

The best part is that you won’t need our coaching forever, you will learn how to connect to the people you love and to work through your pain and issues together in a less volatile and more healthy way.